OK, my son makes it his mission to annoy everyone, why? He laughs when we get angry or annoyed and ignores us when we try to play games that are fun for everyone. Oh! And don't try to suggest NOT hurting, tapping, pushing, or otherwise annoying someone, especially his sister. That only leads to being spit on or having object thrown at you. . . What do you do in this situation? saying I don't like it, just gets a laugh (which is infuriating), or a hit. Suggesting something else to do gets the same reaction.
1% of the time (I am NOT exaggerating for effect here) it is a complete delight to be with my son! I would enjoy nothing more than those moments, but why are they so far and few between?